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Dec. 12th, 2025 10:35 am
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We set off before midday (later than I'd like, better than I feared) and reached our destination by 7.00, with a lunch break at The Tawny Owl on the Neward bypass. We didn't intend to stop at a pub, but followed the signs for services and that was where they took us. So we lunched on things with chips, while the car charged at an extremely pricey charger: and since we were done before it was, can't claim that the pub stop delayed us.

Our AirBnB (a new one to us) is midway between the Bears and the Tube. I have been getting quite stressed about it, so was glad just to arrive and confirm that it exists and we could get in. I suspect that the main problem was a cultural one: they asked for additional identification, which rattled me, and then delayed sending instructions: how very 20th century of me, to want this stuff in advance, when I should have been happy to stand on the doorstep, phone in hand, before receiving the passcode. We unloaded, did a minimum of unpacking, and then headed round to the Bears - and then my phone went off, from our host (though not at the number they had given me) demanding to know where we were, because the plumber was trying to get in. So [personal profile] durham_rambler came back here, let the plumber in, and the two of them spent the next half hour hunting unsuccessflly for the fitting he was supposed to attach. This morning I logged on to the wifi and found the message that we whould expect a plumber (sent at 7.15, which must be when, if not after, we left the property) and a second message, sent half an hour later, saying "Just a quick update — the plumber is already at the property now and is carrying out the repair on the shower hose. It will be a very quick fix." Will it, indeed?

Despite all this, we had a mostly) relaxed evening with the Bears, and made plans for the next few days. Right now, [personal profile] durham_rambler has removed the car from the parking space which is not available berween 10.00 am and noon, and taken it away to feed it; he will return to collect me and take me to Majestic, to buy wine for mulling. Then we will meet the Bears at the Rabbit Hole for lunch. This evening we have a date with a great-nephew. So all is good.
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On Thursday we set off for our pre-Christmas visit to London. As ever, Christmas seems to have arrived before we are ready for it; and as ever, this is partly true. Certainly the calendar has reached the point where the Bears must decide whether, in order to hold the Carol Evening on a Sunday, it must fall either closer to Christmas than is reasonable, or earlier, and have opted for the latter. I think that's a good choice, but yes, definitely not ready.

We did Christmas shopping at the weekend. Not only did we go to the monthly Farmers' Market, we also attended the Christmas Fair on Palace Green. At the former we may have over-shopped for vegetables, because the vegetables are so good there; at the latter we picked up a few small gifts, but were disappointed in the hunt for cards. The local hospice had cards, and we bought the only remaining pack of the design we liked, and there were artists selling single cards, but that's ridiculous... On the way home from the Farmers' Market, we made an inspired detour to the Garden Centre, where we again cleaned them out of the design we liked (three more packs). This enabled us to send off all the overseas cards. Today [personal profile] durham_rambler went to the Oxfam shop alone, and brought home a selection of cards, none of which I hate but none of which I love - and we have spent more of today that I anticipated writing cards.

Yesterday evening we zoomed in to Jim Causley and Miranda Sykes' Midwinter concert, which was pleasantly seasonal. My favourite thing was their 'medieval mashup', but there was also an intriguing combination of Sydney Carter's Song of Truth with fragments of Down in Yon Forest (which is always one of my highlights at the Carol Evening).

Meanwhile, [personal profile] durham_rambler is out being festive - at an annual Parish event, to which I declined to accompany him. I have plenty to do here, thanks: including writing this, and making pizza for a late supper (you could regard it as gratuitous cooking, or you could call it appeasing the sourdough starter, which I will now freeze to await our return). More of a problem is that tonight's event has caused another meeting to be rescheduled to tomorrow, which really is inconvenient.

Oh, well. Onward!

Unexpected connections

Dec. 2nd, 2025 04:45 pm
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Last Friday's Guardian publishes an obituary by Emma Freud of her mother Jill. It is in the 'Other Lives' feature, a gathering of interesting people, and Jill Freud was not only Emma's mother, not only the widow of Clement, but also a working actor and producer (her last film was Love, Actually).

None of this is what caught my attention. But:
At the start of the second world war she was evacuated to Oxford, where she was billeted with a succession of homeowners, before, aged 15, she was sent to a house owned by an academic known as Jack.


Wait, is this who I thnk it is? Why yes... )

Well, that was an unexpected diversion.

Minding the gap

Dec. 5th, 2025 06:34 pm
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Last Friday we went to our one and only event in the Books on Tyne Festival: On Sycamore Gap: Words of Music, Loss, Hope & Renewal with poet Kate Fox and musicians Staithe. Here's the listing on the festival website.

The starting point is the book Kate gave us when we saw her on Lindisfarne at midsummer, a collection of poems arising from the felling of the sycamore tree that used to grow on Hadrian's Wall. It's a nice little book: attractive production, abundant simple but pleasing illustrations by printmaker Cat Moore and, yes, I liked the poems too. I'm sceptical about the outpouring of emotion over the felling of the tree: it leaves a gap in our landscape, but how much of its fame comes from its (entirely fake) role in Robin Hood, Prince of Thieves? I always wondered why a tree had been allowed to grow in the stonework of Hadrian's Wall: it couldn't be good for it, surely? But that's sycamores for you, turn your back for a moment and a tiny seedling has become a tree. I was reassured by Kate's explanation that she had been approached by the publisher, it would not have occurred to her to propose a book on the subject; and I enjoyed her appreciation of how important the tree was in how many ways, tempered by just enough distance. I appreciated her take on the tree's unexpected place in heritage marketing (in her poem on John Clayton, the antiquarian who may have planted the tree).

Here's a glowing review (by - oh, goodness, it's by Julie Ward; long story). It conveys much of what is good about the book, but its praise gives away some of my reservations - it's a perfect gift, apparently. (And I admit, it is).

Given the involvement of Staithe, I had expected a poetry reading with songs; and that's how the first half of the evening went (because, said Kate, "we are our own support act.") But the main event was constructed as a whole: Staithe's Nick Pierce, introducing it, told us it might provoke strong emotions, and this was all right (oh, dear!) but also invited us to save our applause until the end (which we mostly did). Staithe are a duo, new to me, but I realised that I had heard Bridie Jackson before with her band Bridie Jackson and the Arbour: not my music of choice, but it worked well as counterpoint to Kate's words (what was that thing that Nick Pierce was playing? The internet tells me he is a viola player: was it an electric viola?).

I enjoyed the performance, but I was not overcome by strong emotions. This may indicate hardness of heart on my part - but I note that the passage that provoked the entire audience to spontaneous applause was Kate's "Alan Bennett monologue" as one of her fellow attenders in the public gallery at the trial.

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